For some people it’s a wonderful time because they are with their true love and for others it is a sad and lonely time. But the secret to it not even mattering is learning to love yourself.
For me, as I continue on this journey of healing, and getting to know myself better, I have come to realize how much other people’s attention mattered to my self-worth. I rode the highs and lows based on how much attention I was getting-my ego stroked by others kind words. As I’ve learned to spend time with just me again-I understand the importance of embracing those moments, no matter how lonely they make me, and understand that we need to have those quiet pauses to breathe in and reach that next level of understanding of ourselves and others.
That being said, here are tips on things I do to get me in that self-love mode: